Love Facts Overview

Love and relationship is a VERY crucial part of our everyday lives and we all strive to get or have that relationship filled with love, honesty, compromise, and everything else that can be found in a "fairytale-like" relationship leading to happily ever after! And that happily ever after seeks to lead to one thing and one thing only - MARRIAGE!

There is nothing more sweeter than a wedding, however, a wedding does not constitute a marriage. A wedding is merely the glamour in which family and friends come together to celebrate the fact the a union is being created for better or worst in sickness and in health. The marriage is however that potion AFTER the elaborate reception that all the work is done in. Meaning, this is where the decision is made to continue with living up to the vows created before God and man to serve and live for each other until DEATH!

Facts About Submission (love) In Marriage

Many folks seem confused about the subject of submission. Hopefully, this article will bring to light some needed wisdom and understanding concerning this issue and put to rest the culturally accepted folklore we hear about everyday in society about submission. By the way, this is not my wisdom, it comes from God, and I am just His messenger.

Fact 1

Scripture says that the husband ought to (love) submit to his wife. What for? Why can't a husband just boss his wife around and treat her like a doormat? Why can't he demand that she do things for him? Because that is not acceptable behavior on how a Christian husband is supposed to love his wife. For the Christian man, there is a proper way to love his wife, and that is not being demanding, ruling, abusive, controlling, or bossy.

The Facts About Fear and Love

They say in everything we do, in every decision that we make, either of the two are your only motives behind it- fear and love. Believe or not distinguishing between the two can be very confusing. The best way that we can do is to define the difference between fear and love. The former is characterized by an unpleasant feeling that something tragic is going to happen. With it your heart beats fast, your blood pressure rises, your pupils dilate and your muscles constrict. There are two kinds of anxiouness- healthy and unhealthy. The former is actually helpful, for instance you quit smoking because your husband has chronic asthma.

You worry that your smoking might trigger his asthma attack that's why you quit smoking. Another example of is when you work so hard on your marriage because of you are frightened of divorce. You take conscious effort in yourself to become motivated and complete as a person for your loved one and your marriage. Your apprehension is powered by your deep concern and care for your significant other and your relationship. This is fear and love working productively. Healthy kind is minimal anxiousness- this allows you to think and prevent certain danger or worst case scenarios. This is constructive and beneficial.

Sad Scientific Facts About Love

Disaster results when we see women trying to change a man's behaviour. According to evolutionary biologist Rosie Mestel, what women perceive as bad male behaviour (lying, cheating, ogling other women) is actually part of a biologically based prime directive to procreate as fast as possible. All the poorconfused thing is doing is behaving "naturally": trying to solve the age-old problem of passing on his genes before he croaks.

Therefore I ask you women out there --would you put a bird in a stream and expect it to fly? Perhaps that's why men see so many women as controlling, or even cruel.

The desire for commitment is another bad symptom that defies the laws of nature. According to University of Texas psychologist David Buss, "forever is a long time for a guy." A woman only produces twelve eggs a year, and each growing baby represents a huge investment of her time and energy. Men on the other hand have buckets and buckets of sperm so it is in their best interests to impregnate as many women as possible to increase their chances of reproducing themselves.